I’ve always been fixated on little things. Lately I’m obsessed with my chin hairs. Despite a nearly decade- long history of electrolysis, waxing, and now plucking with tweezers, I remain plagued by spiky, white, nearly invisible chin hairs. They require vigilant monitoring as they spring up day and night. Lately when my partner and I… Continue reading Don’t Let Self-Consciousness about Your Body Stand in The Way of Sexual Pleasure
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Moving On
It was just about a year ago when I said to my husband, “I don’t want our next move to be into assisted living.” He laughed. I was serious. For some time I felt we had entered a period of stagnation. I was painfully aware of my husband’s unhappiness in his job; after 15 years… Continue reading Moving On
When He’d Rather Masturbate than Have Sex
Something is going on in your marriage, and you’re not sure you like it. Your husband, who you know to be loving, loyal, and still sexually viable, more and more, seems to prefer pleasuring himself. You knew all along that he masturbates and while you don’t want to hear about the habit, when you’re feeling… Continue reading When He’d Rather Masturbate than Have Sex
A Happy Wife Really Does Mean a Happy Life
When it comes to the success of long-term marriages, a wife’s happiness is more important than her husband’s, according to new research. In fact, her happiness can make him happier with his life no matter how he feels about their union. “I think it comes down to the fact that when a wife is satisfied… Continue reading A Happy Wife Really Does Mean a Happy Life