People whose marriages last longer than 50 years often see a resurgence in sexual activity, according to new research. The study, from researchers at Louisiana State University, Florida State University and Baylor University, found that people who remain in their first marriage have more frequent sex than those who remarry. But though the frequency differs,… Continue reading Sex May “Rebound” in 50-Year Marriages
Category: Relationships & Love
Male/Female Differences: Not as Big as You Think
Although conventional wisdom says men and women are very different – men are stoic, women are emotional, for example – a new study indicates that the two genders are much more alike than commonly believed. Zlatan Krizan, an associate professor of psychology at Iowa State University, and colleagues conducted a synthesis of more than 100… Continue reading Male/Female Differences: Not as Big as You Think
The 8 Best Valentine’s Gifts That Don’t Cost a Penny
Lots of us, particularly males, fret about what to do for Valentine’s Day. Chocolate and roses are nice, but not exactly creative or even heartfelt. Sexy lingerie or a romantic dinner may be fun, but is this what she really wants? I talk to many clients who express genuine anxiety about Valentine’s Day, and this… Continue reading The 8 Best Valentine’s Gifts That Don’t Cost a Penny
Can Having a Lot of Friends Make You Healthier?
There are many benefits to being supported by a strong social network. But can having more friends actually make you healthier? Yes, according to research done at Concordia University in Monrtreal that shows that social relationships affect not only our mental but also our physical wellbeing. The study was published in January 2015 Annals of… Continue reading Can Having a Lot of Friends Make You Healthier?
Men and Women Really Do Process Emotions Differently
Women rate emotional images as more emotionally stimulating than men do and are more likely to remember them. However, there are no gender-related differences in emotional appraisal as far as neutral images are concerned. These were the findings of a large-scale study by a research team at the University of Basel in Switzerland that focused… Continue reading Men and Women Really Do Process Emotions Differently
Sexual vs. Emotional Infidelity: How Men & Women Differ
In the largest study to date on infidelity, Chapman University in Orange, California has learned that men and women are different when it comes to feeling jealous. A release from the university reports that with a survey of 63,894 participants ages 18 to 65 years provided the first large-scale examination of gender and sexual orientation… Continue reading Sexual vs. Emotional Infidelity: How Men & Women Differ
Time to Be Grateful – It’s Thank You Month!
Editor’s note: When it comes to giving thanks, most of us automatically think of the Thanksgiving holiday. But of course, that’s not the only time we should be grateful for the gifts we get from others, whether that’s a fabulous birthday gift or emotional support when we need it. Here, etiquette expert Jacqueline Whitmore shares… Continue reading Time to Be Grateful – It’s Thank You Month!
Want A Good Relationship? Don’t Turn Away
Of all the tactics used by couples when they’re in conflict, researchers now say, withdrawing “like a turtle into its shell” is the most damaging. And expecting your significant other to be a mind reader isn’t much help, either. Those attitudes are two of the most common kinds of “disengagement in relationships, and both can… Continue reading Want A Good Relationship? Don’t Turn Away
January is “Divorce Month”: Tips for Navigating the Life Transition
The month of January has come to be known as “divorce month”. The start of the New Year brings with it a roughly one-third increase in divorce filings, perhaps because families opt to stay united throughout the holiday season. There are few life transitions more difficult than navigating a divorce. According to Nicole Mayer, AIF,… Continue reading January is “Divorce Month”: Tips for Navigating the Life Transition
Retirees Need Help in Addressing Substance-Abuse Issues
Researchers say that older Americans suffering from substance abuse often do so not because of retirement alone but because of many circumstances, such as the death of loved ones, that occur at that stage of life. Currently, close to three million Americans aged 55 and older suffer from alcohol abuse — and that is expected… Continue reading Retirees Need Help in Addressing Substance-Abuse Issues
8 Tips for Finding True Love in the New Year
The start of a new year brings high hopes for many singles that this is the year they find a life partner. But if you have suffered from relationship failures in the past, it’s time to make some simple changes before you can find your soulmate and have high hopes of settling down. Colin Christopher,… Continue reading 8 Tips for Finding True Love in the New Year
Attack of the Grief Monster
There is a “monster” who quietly lurks among those who have suffered a loss and are bereaved. It is stealthy and sneaky and pounces when we both most and least expect it. As with most “monsters”, this one appears in the quiet and lonely of night. However, this particular monster can strike during the daytime… Continue reading Attack of the Grief Monster
Women Who Wear High Heels Get More Help from Men
A study done at Université de Bretagne-Sud in France is the first to investigate the effect of a woman’s shoe heels on men’s behavior. The result? If it’s help a woman needs, maybe she should wear high heels. That’s the message from researcher Nicolas Guéguen after he observed how helpful men are towards women in… Continue reading Women Who Wear High Heels Get More Help from Men
Marriage Counseling for Older Couples Is Needed
The findings of a nationally representative study done at Michigan State University suggest the need for Marriage Counselling and programs aimed at promoting marital quality and well-being for couples into their 70s and 80s, according to lead investigator Hui Liu, associate professor of sociology. The research showed that older people in troubled marriages — particularly… Continue reading Marriage Counseling for Older Couples Is Needed
The Silent Relationship Killer
If you have engaged in relationships of any kind, you have experienced and likely battled against “silent agreements.” While most people have never used or even heard of this term, silent agreements are present in our everyday lives where they lurk in the shadows of our relationships—at home, in social circles and in the workplace.… Continue reading The Silent Relationship Killer
The Bad-Marriage Factor in Obesity
A bad marriage can cause metabolic changes that may lead to obesity, according to new research. The study also showed that a history of depression can be an additional factor in how the body processes high-fat foods. Researchers at The Ohio State University looked at men and women who had a history of depression and… Continue reading The Bad-Marriage Factor in Obesity
Make Your Dating Life Healthy Again!
You’ve made the big decision to start dating again. You’ve heard about all the health benefits of good relationships: reducing the risk of stress, depression, even heart disease. But basically, you’d just like a guy in your life again. All your friends are telling you the only way to go is to get on Match… Continue reading Make Your Dating Life Healthy Again!
A New Therapy to Help with “Complicated Grief”
Targeted therapy may help millions of older women afflicted with a kind of grief that could lead to suicide. “Complicated grief,” as it’s known, affects an estimated 4 million women in the U.S. Beginning after the loss of a spouse or a close relationship, the condition can lead to an increased risk of suicide. Symptoms… Continue reading A New Therapy to Help with “Complicated Grief”