Young love is so widespread each Valentine’s Day that it threatens to deplete Cupid’s stock of arrows. But single men and women with a few extra decades under their belts – and perhaps a little gray in their hair – are also in the market for romance, and they likely have a better understanding of… Continue reading Dating the Grown-Up Way: Why It’s Better Over 40
Category: Family
Are You Married To Your Opposite?
A frequently cited statistic – that nearly half of marriages end in divorce in the United States – has an emotional pull on the intuitions of many. Recent data suggests, however, that the 45- to 50-percent divorce rate is not presently accurate, as our divorces apparently have been lowering in numbers since the 1990s. Does… Continue reading Are You Married To Your Opposite?
7 Steps to A Peaceful Divorce
The only thing worse than a divorce is a nasty divorce full of gossip, unnecessary expenditures that financially drain both spouses and the added emotional turmoil that comes with fighting, name calling and even physical abuse. Is it possible to have a peaceful and even amicable divorce? Joryn Jenkins, a trial attorney with 35 years… Continue reading 7 Steps to A Peaceful Divorce
Give Up “Getting Over the Past”
Is there something in your past causing you pain and preventing you from fully experiencing joy in the present? Perhaps there is an upset with your partner you can’t seem to put behind you. It could be anything from a fight over dinner to a betrayal of trust. Whatever scenario you happen to be in,… Continue reading Give Up “Getting Over the Past”
The Caregiving Imperative: New Year’s Resolutions to Preserve Physical Health and Mental Well-Being
As we age, the years pass quickly from one to the next. Unless we truly look back at our accomplishments or the changes in our lives we may feel like we have made no progress nor accomplished any goals. Some see New Year’s resolutions as a negative because the list results in projects that are… Continue reading The Caregiving Imperative: New Year’s Resolutions to Preserve Physical Health and Mental Well-Being
What You Must Know About Lead Poisoning
The stories about the high lead levels in the water supply of Flint, Michigan have brought the problem of lead poisoning front and center. According to experts from the Mayo Clinic, those at greatest risk of health problems, including serious brain and kidney damage, are children. But adults can be vulnerable as well. Lead poisoning… Continue reading What You Must Know About Lead Poisoning
Getting Your Cat Ready for the Vet
If you own a cat, you want him or her to live a long, happy life. But to do that means regular visits to the vet – and chances are that you dread this almost as much as your cat does. Here, from cat-care experts, are some tips on what you can do to make… Continue reading Getting Your Cat Ready for the Vet
Couples’ Quality of Life Linked Even After One Spouse Dies
When one spouse passes away, his or her characteristics continue to be linked with the surviving spouse’s well-being, according to new research published in Psychological Science, a journal of the Association for Psychological Science. The findings also indicate that this link between the deceased spouse and surviving spouse is as strong as that between partners… Continue reading Couples’ Quality of Life Linked Even After One Spouse Dies
When It Comes to Happiness, Time’s More Important than Money
You’ll have a better chance at happiness if you value time more than money, according to new research published by the Society for Personality and Social Psychology. In six studies with more than 4,600 participants, researchers found an almost even split between people who tended to value their time or money, and that choice was… Continue reading When It Comes to Happiness, Time’s More Important than Money
Fish-Flavored Food May Be Unhealthy for Cats
Fish-flavored food may be causing an increasing number of cases of hyperthyroidism in cats, according to new research. The finding was published in the American Chemical Society’s journal Environmental Science & Technology Hyperthyroidism is a hormonal disorder that can cause weight loss, hyperactivity, aggression, vomiting and other symptoms in cats. No one knows for sure… Continue reading Fish-Flavored Food May Be Unhealthy for Cats
5 Tips for Managing Life as a Family Caregiver
Each year more and more Americans step up to assume the role of primary caregiver for an adult family member or loved one. In fact, in the past year, nearly 40 million Americans have provided unpaid care. For many, taking on the role of caregiver is necessary for the health and wellness of a senior loved one, but it is not without… Continue reading 5 Tips for Managing Life as a Family Caregiver
Caregivers Need to Care for Themselves, Too
When a major illness or injury leaves someone in need of long-term, nearly round-the-clock care, it’s often up to a family member to step in and provide it. But research shows that the role of caregiving can lead to its own health issues, creating a significant amount of stress and strain for the caregiver. “That… Continue reading Caregivers Need to Care for Themselves, Too
Finding Fido (and Fluffy, too)!
A survey was done a few years ago by the ASPCA® (The American Society for the Prevention of Cruelty to Animals) relating to lost pets. In the random survey, 15% of the surveyed pet owners had lost a cat or dog in the past 5 years; and out of those lost pets, 49% of the… Continue reading Finding Fido (and Fluffy, too)!
Helping a Grandchild Overcome A College Setback
College acceptance letters can be an exciting time for high school seniors and a realization of a goal achieved. Although hard work and perseverance pay off for many, some students will receive college rejection letters. This can be a difficult time for both the student and the parent – and for grandparents, who want to… Continue reading Helping a Grandchild Overcome A College Setback
Empowering Gratitude in an Imperfect World
At most family gatherings, there is a formal or informal time for reflecting on what we are grateful for. Almost invariably a prominent object of that gratefulness is family, in its many varied forms. What a lovely tradition. As 2016 begins, I AM grateful for my family – well, in my case, that should be… Continue reading Empowering Gratitude in an Imperfect World
6 Ways To Talk About Money With Your Family
Finance cuts to our emotional roots. When we think about money, let’s be honest – we’re not talking about just money, but also a host of related consequences and deeply felt emotions. Money cuts to the emotional roots of every human issue. In my years of advising, I’ve come to understand that when we talk… Continue reading 6 Ways To Talk About Money With Your Family
Helping Others will Help You
Helping people, whether friends, family or strangers, can help lessen stress in our lives, according to new research published in Clinical Psychological Science, a journal of the Association for Psychological Science. “Our research shows that when we help others we can also help ourselves,” explains study author Emily Ansell of the Yale University School of… Continue reading Helping Others will Help You
Pet-Safety Tips for The Holidays
Pet safety is important all year round, but you need to be especially wary at holiday time, when cats see interesting objects (plants, tinsel) they want to explore. Here, from the Pet Poison Helpline, are some things you should keep away from your pets. When decorating for the season, consider your pets. Holiday decorations such… Continue reading Pet-Safety Tips for The Holidays