Dieting Phrases That Keep Us From Losing Weight

By Steve Siebold

They are the seemingly innocent little phrases many of us use to talk about dieting and getting fit, but could they actually be working against us when it comes to losing weight? What might seem like harmless ways to talk about dieting, even just in passing, can penetrate deep into the subconscious and have dire consequences.

Here are some of the most dangerous phrases

Diets donΓÇÖt work.

Big is beautiful. WeΓÇÖve been sold a bogus bill of goods with ΓÇÿfeel goodΓÇÖ marketing schemes that say things like ΓÇÿbig is beautiful,ΓÇÖ ΓÇÿyouΓÇÖre just big boned,ΓÇÖ and ΓÇÿpleasantly plump.ΓÇÖ These dangerous phrases convince people that itΓÇÖs okay to fail, and makes them feel good about giving up on wanting to get fit. Stop acting delusional and start operating from objective reality. ThereΓÇÖs nothing good about fat. It will suck the life right out of you and it will even kill you eventually.

One bad meal wonΓÇÖt make me fat.

I can start over on Monday. Stop letting yourself off the hook. Stop starting over and telling yourself youΓÇÖll do it next time. There is no next time, only this time right now. You said next time, last time, and allowing yourself the luxury of continually quitting is a deadly habit. If you keep letting yourself off the hook by succumbing to cravings, peer pressure, emotional swings and other distractions, youΓÇÖll continue to run in circles until you eventually drop dead.

I just donΓÇÖt have the willpower. Willpower is the foundation to successful dieting, and everyone has it. Some people just have to dig deeper. You have to get tough and hold your feet to the fire. When you feel those late-night hunger pangs and cravings, experience them fully. Embrace the pain, stare it down and look it straight in the eye. ThatΓÇÖs the feeling of victory telling you if you can do this, you can do anything. When you embrace the pain and the discipline required to continue, youΓÇÖll start looking in the mirror and seeing the person you really are and were always meant to be.

Diets are so boring. Dieting might not be your normal kind of fun, but yes, it is fun. The fun of dieting awaits you when you succeed. IsnΓÇÖt it fun thinking how sexy youΓÇÖre going to look next time you hit the pool or the beach? IsnΓÇÖt it fun to buy a tight pair of jeans and slide them right on without having to inhale and hold your breath? What about attending your high school reunion and being proud of the way you look? How about reigniting the sex drive you had when you were fit? And the most substantial: isnΓÇÖt it fun knowing you wonΓÇÖt drop dead in the street and leave your family fending for themselves?

Steve Siebold is author of the new book Fat Loser: Mental Toughness Training for Dieters , and someone who knows about what it takes to lose weight. He is a former professional athlete who got lazy and gained 40 pounds after his playing days were over. It wasnΓÇÖt until he started studying the mental side of performance and weight loss that he was able to finally lose all the weight and get fit again.