Mental & Emotional Health

6 Tips for Improving Your ΓÇ£Lines of GratificationΓÇ¥

Now that we are in the year’s final quarter, Dr. Robert J. Cerfolio, a world-renowned cardiothoracic surgeon, says it’s never too early to think about self-improvement for the New Year … and this year.

ΓÇ£Habitual procrastination can really hurt you in the long run because waiting to take care of something thatΓÇÖs obviously important to you ΓÇô health, money, family matters ΓÇô weighs on your subconscious,ΓÇ¥ says Dr. Cerfolio, known as ΓÇ£the Michael Jordan of lung surgery.ΓÇ¥

Understanding oneΓÇÖs personal ΓÇ£line of gratificationΓÇ¥ is the foundation for sticking to self-improvement goals, he says.

ΓÇ£There are many kinds of lines of gratification,ΓÇ¥ he says. ΓÇ£For some, theyΓÇÖre the number of zeroes in their bank statement; for others, the curves of their muscles after they leave the gym. ItΓÇÖs good and healthy to look back on your hard work and admire what you have accomplished before moving on to the next task.ΓÇ¥

Dr. Cerfolio, author of ΓÇ£Super Performing at Work and at Home: The Athleticism of Surgery and Life,ΓÇ¥ shares tips on how to make those lines of gratification more impressive.

ΓÇó Be an early riser. The main reason operating rooms hum into action at 7 a.m. is tied to human physiology; the bodies of patients are better able to handle the stress of surgery at that time.
ΓÇ£People are generally better off getting work done early in the day when weΓÇÖre better prepared for stress and performance,ΓÇ¥ he says. ΓÇ£And getting a job done early frees you up later in the day.ΓÇ¥

ΓÇó Love what you do. Why wouldnΓÇÖt you want to take ownership, responsibility and pride in what you do for a living? When you treat a job as only a means to a paycheck, you are missing the point. If your job isnΓÇÖt the one youΓÇÖd really love to have, donΓÇÖt make it worse with a negative attitude. Instead, make it your own. Make it a point of personal integrity and principle to challenge yourself to achieve something every day. After all, 40 hours a week is a long time to stay anywhere.

ΓÇó Ask yourself: Did I really try my best? ΓÇ£I tried my bestΓÇ¥ is a common refrain from those who havenΓÇÖt reached their goals. An honest response you can ask yourself is, ΓÇ£Am I sure?ΓÇ¥ This question is not about being overly critical. ItΓÇÖs simply about realizing that, if you had practiced or studied an extra 10 minutes each day, you wouldΓÇÖve been that much closer to your goals.

ΓÇó Set specific, measurable goals. Results define goals. Every individual should have clear goals that are objective and measurable. Goals such as ΓÇ£to be happy,ΓÇ¥ ΓÇ£to do well at workΓÇ¥ or ΓÇ£to get alongΓÇ¥ are too nebulous. To be successful, you have to be able to define your goals by measurable results.

ΓÇó Find the high ground. In anything you do, aspire to live up to the noblest, highest aspect of your job. Certain jobs ΓÇô such as police work, firefighting, teaching or working in health care ΓÇô are service oriented, so itΓÇÖs easier to feel good about your contributions. Look for the contributions youΓÇÖre making in your job and take pride in what youΓÇÖre doing to make the world a little better.

ΓÇó Be the go-to guy or girl. This takes time, practice and the confidence necessary to want the ball in a critical situation. Being the go-to guy or girl means being willing to take responsibility and risk failing. A go-to person is also willing to speak up about problems or changes necessary in a business or organization, and suggest solutions.

Robert J. Cerfolio, MD, MBA, is the James H. Estes Family Endowed Chair of Lung Cancer Research and Full Professor Chief of Thoracic Surgery at the University of Alabama in Birmingham. He received his medical degree from the University of Rochester School of Medicine, surgical training at the Mayo Clinic and at Cornell-Sloan Kettering hospital, and has been in practice for more than 26 years. The author of Super Performing at Work and at Home. Cerfolio, who was a First Team Academic All-American baseball player in college, is a world-renowned chest surgeon and recognized as one of the busiest and best thoracic surgeons in the world.

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